So, my regular, signature perfume of 14 years (Filigree, by the Thymes Ltd) is a fragrance for all occasions. It's priced middle-range. It can be soft, comforting and homey. It can be warm, elegant and feminine. It wears as well on flannel PJs as it does a cashmere wrap. Anyhow, so that's a lady that can and should be taken out. You can sleep with her and take her out to a chic restaurant or gathering of snooty in-laws. She is never clingy, cloying or screechy. But do you have a mistress fragrance, a secret, dirt cheap thrill that no matter how you dress her up, you still can't take her out? I do! I always keep a few naughties on the side. At the moment it is VS Coconut Passion (more vanilla and sugar, with a comforting dry-down that hints at coconut). The coconut made me think it would be a summary, sunscreen, coconut scent alla Bobbi Brown Beach. But newp, it's quite warm and intimidate feeling in a wintery snug sort of way. She's the kind of girl that keeps a cute little apartment and favors teddies and and fuzzy slippers. I think she still sleeps with lots of stuffed animals. Can't quite picture her fully dressed, let alone dressed stylishly (I imagine her jeans are a bit too tight for comfort, she may favor horrific faux designer handbags, and her jackets always look a like the manufacture skimped on fabric because they are just too short to be practical). Poor girl, she probably never looks properly dressed when out and about! But this is why we only mingle at home. The scent? It's a bit like the BBW frags such as Fresh Sugar (DCed) and Warm Vanilla Sugar, however unlike all frags BBW, it does not make me ill. It also reminds me how much I like Jessica Simpson Fancy. So do you have a fragrance Other Woman who is absolutely lovely and charming but who you just know won't cut it in polite society?