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Author Topic: Things I just don't get  (Read 1678 times)

StrongAndTough1214

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Re: Things I just don't get
« Reply #15 on: August 08, 2016, 09:46:09 PM »
-Why there are so few sites or boards for people over 40 unless it's dating sites. I want to scream, "hello? People over 40 don't just talk for dating purposes. Sometimes we just talk for the sake of talking!)

-Teens and adults who go out in public in pajama pants or full pajamas. (Seriously?!)

-People who post literally everything about their lives on Facebook. (There's no way that can be a good or safe thing to do.)

-Teen-age or adult males who wear sagging jeans hanging half-way down their rear-ends or even lower.

-People who practically live on their cell phones to the point that they're always missing out on the present moments because they're always talking to or texting someone who is not present with them at the time.



Swest

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Re: Things I just don't get
« Reply #16 on: September 01, 2016, 09:15:37 AM »
Some of this is going to just make me sound like an angry old lady but I wish

There were more message boards for women over 40 . This and the section on MUA is the only one left it seems. The rest have disappeared or inactive for years. The rest are dating sites for over 40+ women and men.

A pill for everything. How about educating yourself and eating better, taking time to rest etc. That might solve a lot of problems instead of relying on multiple types of medication(s) that can interact badly with other meds. Most of us know what we have to do but will not do it. Be your own best health advocate.

Corporations treating their employees like disposable trash and then cant figure why they cannot find 'good help' Same with private
employers.


Selfie, Instagram FB PS culture. Bleh! Im done with most reality shows like 'Real Housewives' Screeching harpies fake drama, the whole me me me culture and one of the reason I cut my cable .  I might get a basic antenna for some news and drama shows but that is it.

Heavily drawn on brows. I have only seen this on a few actual younger people while out and about but still looks silly unless you are
on the stage or a performer--- avoid.

People who want pets but will not take responsibility for them. Leave them in the house all day/yard barking whining, disturbing neighbors who work at home, retired or are night shift workers.Its even better when you live in a apartment.  Get a serious pet sitter or better yet dont get a dog until you can adequately give it the attention it needs. Much like a child.

High heels . Wore them briefly  in HS but once past 25 feet changed. Never got the appeal but oh well . If other people want to damage their feet that is their business. Stopped suffering for fashion (footwear wise) years ago.

Lack of quality clothing lately that is affordable.
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milla

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Re: Things I just don't get
« Reply #17 on: September 02, 2016, 04:00:55 AM »
There was a TV series in the UK a while ago, which was called ‘Grumpy Old Women’; this post is beginning to remind me of the series! Now, don’t get me wrong, the women featured on the programme are actresses, journalists, writers and they are very funny.The last thing I would call them is ‘old’.
One of the programmes in the series focused on Christmas shopping, which is another thing I don’t get: why are shops flooded with Christmas merchandise in the beginning of October? Yesterday I went shopping in a mall (something I try to avoid). The place was full of parents buying shoes, school uniforms and school equipment for their children. Fair enough: the schools re-open on Monday. But the shops where also full of Halloween ‘things’. Halloween is at the end of October, right?
Christmas beats everything else. As I said, from the beginning of October shops are wall-to-wall Christmas decorations, blaring out Mariah Carey on their sound systems By Christmas Eve your brain is  well and truly scrambled and then…you have got to cook The Turkey!
Here a link to the programme and if Christmas leaves you shattered, don’t worry, you are not the re-incarnation of Scrooge: Germaine Greer does not like it either…personally I think Christmas is a feminist issue.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qqt5XVtJVSc&list=PL25A91D8AD7FE3058

cara4art

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Re: Things I just don't get
« Reply #18 on: September 03, 2016, 08:24:40 AM »
@Swest: I'm with you on all of these! Let's face it, to anyone who still has half a brain left, the culture at large is heading in this direction of utter trash. That's not being an "angry old lady" - it's seeing things for what they are. Thank goodness I don't have to be in the mainstream that much at all! And I totally hear you about the TV - DH and I got RID of ours entirely in 1985 and never looked back. On the occasions that I am exposed to it, like at my gym, I'm usually horrified.:( I sure don't need that in my home, which DH and I have as a haven of peacefulness, color and simplicity.

Swest

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Re: Things I just don't get
« Reply #19 on: September 06, 2016, 11:42:11 AM »
I do have Hulu and need to cancel my netflix. I do love that its easier to chose what I actually want to watch. Right now Im revisiting old shows from 20 years back, episodes that I missed. I love that I can pause a program (better than a dvdr, no cut offs) And the commercials are filtered and I have some choice what comes through (HULU).
I slowly started reading again --mostly taking advantage of the libraries in my area. That should save me some money and shelf space.

I hang on to some of my better made stuff. This sounds like hoarding but really just disgusted with the lack of quality and most fashions today I have no interest in wearing. Been through the 80s and no interest in seeing the worst of it on me again. Makes some of the 90s look pretty classy by comparison (with the exception of grunge and those lacy collars on dresses. ).  My last brief shopping trip I walked out of a boutique because everything was either super thin or just ugly prints and stuff that I would wear maybe once-- only because I had an interview coming up.

Regarding bike traffic: When did they if ever changed the way bicyclists riding against facing traffic. I see that where I live now, and back in the stone age I was taught in school to ride WITH the direction of traffic. Did they change the law? Or am I just out of touch.
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cara4art

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Re: Things I just don't get
« Reply #20 on: September 06, 2016, 04:34:24 PM »
@Swest: Boy do I agree with you on the clothes - there's utter crap around right now.:( Even more expensive stuff has fallen off in quality(not that I'm in the market for "more expensive" due to being mostly a second-hand shopper. Just as I feared would happen a few years ago, the ugly, poorly made stuff that we speak of is increasingly flooding the second-hand and thrift shops making it that much harder to find truly good stuff that as recently as, say, 6 years ago, I had no trouble finding. Yet young fashion/style bloggers RAVE about all the crap, because they've never known anything else. I don't get that.:) Like you, I'm holding on to more of my old stuff but even with that my wardrobe is a lot smaller than many peoples'. One knows it's gotten pretty bad out there shopping in general when the clothes in one's closet that one thinks have seen better days, look BETTER than anything in the stores. So no, I won't be doing very much shopping at all. That's saying something, for someone who doesn't shop much to begin with. Sitting tight here, which might go on for a long time depending on how long this ugly cycle lasts.
In parting, it's NOT our imagination, via this Washington Post article that garnered more than 2000 comments:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2016/08/26/why-are-sales-suffering-at-so-many-womens-stores-they-made-bad-clothes/?tid=pm_opinions_pop_b&utm_term=.cd6a773f05cc

jaerae

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Re: Things I just don't get
« Reply #21 on: September 14, 2016, 01:23:34 AM »
@ Swest currently back into anime watching mode. recently previously in a Asian drama watching mode (Japanese, Korean and/or Taiwanese). i have a trusted handful of websites where i watch shows. things can be tricky as i do not use flash which a predominance of streaming sites demand. surely i have asked before but no one watches anime or dramas here? for me it is a great way to keep my brain fully active (from reading subtitling).

it was nice the other day to share a treat with neighbor then sit on her front porch and chat (although with my face mask AND cap AND long sleeves AND jeans on). pollen is pure evil, i swear. felt like i had been hit by a truck as i let antihistamine wear off without re-dosing up but felt my body needs a rest here and there. cabin fever is fierce! but allergies are too ha!

noticed while reading my Kpop/dramas friend's twitter she leaves for Japan this weekend. i am not sure on how long she is gone. as it is we have not really chatted few months now. she is a workaholic but knows how to play quite well too (someone i can vicariously live thru :) )

angela001

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Re: Things I just don't get
« Reply #22 on: September 14, 2016, 02:03:05 AM »
I just don't get women whose makeup is looking very messy and cakey.. It looks unhygienic and dirty, like you don't even care how your skin looks like, and you don't respect your own skin... I hate when I see that a woman doesn't take care about her looks-  I don't mean everyday full makeup and perfect hair, just 5 minutes to make yourself look nice..